- Are you both completely committed to building a strong, loving union?
- How often do you disagree or argue?
- How often do you have positive interactions (remember, positive interactions should outnumber negative interactions 20 to 1)?
- Do you have an experienced couple mentoring you and your spouse?
- Are you open and willing to accept influence from your spouse?
- In what specific ways have you accepted influence?
- Are you showing positive character toward your spouse?
- Are you showing any negative character traits toward your spouse? If so, how can you work to limit that?